These are a couple videos that have inspired me. Both are intentional ways to slow down, and be resourceful amidst large cities. They remind me that I cultivate any kind of life even when the culture around me is busy.





Living without drama

The past couple of weeks I have dealt with unhealthy family dynamics. The lack of boundaries and communication can have a negative affect on relationships.

These incidents were not with me personally. In my family I realized I am moral support to many. At times it can be very overwhelming.

Living uncomplicated is an intentional thing. It is thoughtful, and forgiving, and requires work. I have decided I will live without the drama.

If I find myself in the middle I will choose to remove myself. I will continue to be listening ear to my family but will speak up when the conversation goes into circles, or when I feel that an individual isn’t interested in having a conversation, but merely wants to talk without wanting to change. I’ll be mindful to live without feeding into the drama. And, I will also choose to surround myself with individuals who aren’t weighed down by complaints, anger, and competition.

Living lightly is more than just possessions, it is living light in our souls, too.

Quiet Christmas

annie-spratt-469222-unsplashChristmas was good this year.

We opted for a quiet Christmas and a day of homemade cooking. It was a good way to spend the day; we napped, watched some TV, spent time with our animals, and there was no ounce of stress. Some family stopped by to drop off gifts and hang out for awhile. It was fun!

Past Holidays were full of going to two or three different houses in one day. Just writing that sentence gave me anxiety. This year we attended two, and declined three. Being with everyone is fun, but trying to do it all can wear me out.

Sometimes the pressure to be every at every party, accept every invite, and buy everyone something can be so stressful. Not to mention how frazzled people can be trying to do the same thing at the same time. This all detracts from the real meaning of Christmas.

Different from past years, I scheduled a lot of ‘white space’ between my days. If I had to pick up a shift at work, I had the time, and energy.

We committed to less parties. One big, and one small. Cooking side dishes and meals we’ve cooked several times before. No guessing games or stress trying to figure it out.

I created a personalized gift that we gave to close friends, and both of our families. I bought them in bulk, and couldn’t have been more pleased. Wrapping took  one evening. Everyone loved the gift! It was probably one of the best ideas so far, and I’d like to do something similar in the future.

I ordered Holiday cards the beginning of November and they were addressed and ready to go Thanksgiving week. This also took three hours of an afternoon.

AH and I baked sweet treats for my co-workers for gifts.

Lastly, the presents AH and I gave to each other were thoughtful, and bought second hand. He wanted an old record player so I purchased it off eBay. He gifted me a beautiful ring, totally my style, and he got it thrifting! I love a second hand present.

Next year we hope to keep the same traditions, and possibly build more. Whatever brings more calm, stillness, and slowness. Perhaps go out of town to the mountains with close family and friends.

Hope you had a wonderful Christmas, and enjoy your Holiday season!







Most instances of disappointment, stress or heart ache can be alleviated if we just let go.

Perhaps statues and shrines aren’t as popular in our American culture but the generation of millennials have several idols. Whether its perfection, (my instagram photos reflect my top best seconds in the right angles), finding identity in the people we associate ourselves with, or the titles we wear, anything we love more than God is an idol. There is nothing wrong with having amazing photos, friends, and career, but if we find our sole identity in these things we walk around empty until our next fix.

Jesus met a rich young man who was interested in what it takes to enter the kingdom. Jesus replied “Obey the commandments; do not murder, do not commit adultery, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother,” and “love your neighbor as yourself”.  The rich young man says “I’ve done all of these things! What do I still lack?”

Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

What does all this mean?!  I don’t believe it means we have to sell everything. Jesus was challenging this man on where he found his identity. The bible refers to this man as the “rich young man or rich young ruler”. For this particular man, it meant lying down the very thing that made him – him.

The story ends like this:  When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth. 

He couldn’t let go.

In an alternate ending, I wonder what kind of life this rich young man would have had if he decided to let go. Would he be full of healthy relationships, contentment and purpose? Would he find letting go worth it?

Life is constantly moving, and being open to how the journey unfolds is the most exciting part of this adventure.

It takes courage to let go, and sometimes holding on becomes more detrimental than we think.

Holding on to toxic relationships, getting upset because a friend or spouse don’t meet our needs (which is not their job in the first place), hoarding too many unused possessions, or obsessively trying to cultivate an image to be accepted is down right exhausting.

Trying to hold on to the past or how things ‘were’ can create an unhealthy mindset. It reflects not being present, and can block us from being grateful for what is going on now.

The Minimalists have a great podcast about walking away from things / letting go. Bottom line: we shouldn’t have an unhealthy attachment to people or possessions.

How exciting a time can be when we let go of our expectations, and control, and just enjoy what is happening in front of us!

How unburdened would we be if we just committed to 1 or 2 things that aligned with our values, and not because we want to please people? Giving us margin to be excellent at the few things we commit to.

What kind of moods would we be in if we woke up to a clear, uncluttered space, and only possessed in our homes what we found beautiful and useful?

Maybe try to let go of a couple things. A sweater you hardly use, donate it to a local charity. Furniture or items you don’t use.  You don’t need four shelves of mugs, do you?  And while you’re at it, throw in old hurts, expectations, and comparing yourself to others too.

The other side of letting go is freedom.


Simple Pleasures


from left to right

1, 2) Went on a business trip and stayed in a beautiful hotel. This was the view from breakfast. They made their very own doughnuts, and they were delicious.

3) Watched the sunset behind the Smoky Mountains next to AH, and our friends with their beautiful new baby.

4) Woke up to the view of these trees and watched the fog roll over the mountain.

5, 6) Walked around a new city with our friends. It was hot, humid, and full of history.

7) Visited an arboretum, and walked through admiring all the plants. Noticed a lot of calatheas and philodendrons.

8) Walked to the park with our favorite little. She couldn’t wait to get to the playground, and courageously climbed through everything there.

What a week!

Traveling Light – South East Asia

AH and I spent time in South East Asia, and I distinctly remember being very choosey with what I brought with me. The benefits of traveling this way start with mobility. I rode on the back of a scooter to a bus station with a heavy pack, and that was painful. Literally painful, so now I choose less.

Packing thoughtfully meant every top had to work with the bottom, and the other way around. It was easy to choose because: fewer options. I usually bring a rain jacket with me no matter what. Besides the rain jacket here is what I packed:

  • white top
  • plaid long sleeve
  • blue t-shirt
  • black skirt
  • denim shorts
  • black denim jeans
  • PJs
  • flip flops
  • tennis shoes


I was pretty happy with how everything fit. Comfort is number one, and aesthetics are number two. Each piece was enough to be simple, and versatile without forfeiting my personal style. Because this worked so well I try to keep the same template for future travel.

On this trip we did everything from night markets, hiking, hanging out in coffee shops to walking and exploring around. I didn’t feel like I was missing anything.

Do you like to pack light? What are your must-haves on a trip? And, have you ever forgotten an item behind only to wish you hadn’t?

Back to Minsimply




Dear Reader,

Sorry it has been so long since I last updated this blog. My intention to write was for accountability, and inspiration. Since my last post AH (awesome husband) and I went abroad for a couple months. When we returned I became awfully ill, and the majority of last year was recovery, and ‘taking it slow’.

Since my last post we continue to walk towards our goal of living simply, in whatever form that looks to us. In our case its to enjoy life and live with less stress. We work hard when we have to, and we savor the still moments of enjoying simple pleasures, too.

Anyways, I hope to be more present here, and continue to grow towards a life full of enjoying the simple things, health, and joy.

With love. Xx